A Budget Black Honey Dupe

Clinique’s iconic Almost Lipstick currently runs about 25 dollars a tube, and if you’re a devoted fan, it’s worth it for that sheer, flattering wash of color. You can find it here.

I wanted to open up some room in my budget for a few paler, seasonal shades, so I went looking for a cheaper alternative. Covergirl’s Clean Fresh Tinted Lip Balm delivers a rich, lush berry gloss that feels very similar on the lips. The color is sheer and light, with a slippery glide I actually prefer to Clinique’s slightly sticky formula. The best part is the price tag—usually under 7 dollars—so trying multiple shades doesn’t wreck your budget. Shop it here.

Thanks to added hyaluronic acid, it also gives a nice boost of moisture and keeps my lips feeling comfortably hydrated. The only real compromise is in the packaging. Covergirl’s plastic tube is simple and serviceable, not beautiful and sleek like its department-store counterpart. For the price difference, I’m more than happy to make that trade, and I’m already planning to test a few more shades of Covergirl Clean Fresh Tinted Lip Balm.

If you love the look of Clinique Almost Lipstick but not the price, this is the closest drugstore version I’ve found so far. For several decades I’ve been spending money on Black Honey Almost Lipstick, and before that, I spent money on Black Honey in a pot that required a special lip brush. Teenage me felt sophisticated painting on the rich, berry gloss. No, though, as prices for cosmetics climb, I’m all about finding a good dupe.

A Beautiful Spring Eye Palette

Recently I took inventory of my eyeshadow wardrobe with spring in mind. I found I didn’t have a lot of pale and mid-range tones suited to spring and summer. I gravitate toward dark shades, moody tones too emo for a world of daffodils and tulips. I wanted some lighter neutrals, some shimmers, and some seasonal mid tones. And I wanted to invite lighter, brighter colors to compliment my Summer coloring and blue-gray hazel eyes.

After looking at lots of singles and palettes, I ended up eyeing this palette, Vol. 2, from Girlacktick.

Sure, at roughly $50 it’s a little pricey, but hear me out. This is a set of six eyeshadow duos, each duo a matte and a shimmer. Presented in this format it’s easy to borrow shades from multiple duos. The formulas are buttery and blendable. The matte shades have not creased! Not once, and I’ve been using this palette for two months.

I am in love with the shimmer offerings, especially the fashion colors in the set. Let’s talk about these shades as part of the duo structure. Clover is a shimmer paired with a matte called Mint. On my eyelids, Mint forms a base. I’ll be honest. I would not leave my home wearing only Mint on my lids. It’s a shade that reminds me of my mother’s early 1970’s blue eyeshadow. It’s a pastel with a matte finish. But when Clover gets added to Mint, magic happens. Clover is a soft, gray-blue-mint shade that shimmers and adds depth and sophistication. I’d wear Clover on its own, no problem. The lavender duo is a pair of shades called Haute and Wisteria. The matte shade is Haute. While Mint is a one-dimensional color, Haute is more complex. and compared to Mint, I find it to be a more complex color. Under the shade has an undertone of vibrant pink, and almost shifts color. Wisteria, the light purple shimmer, is a delight. It catches the light and the shimmer seems to be pink-purple on me. I’d wear Wisteria as a solo shade.

The palette has a sophisticated array of neutral/nude mattes and shimmers too. The pink duo looks like a nude on me because my complexion is so pink. Tulle/Paris form a beautiful pink-nude matte for my lid and a beautiful rose shimmer to top it off. The remaining six shades are three nude to brown mattes–Adore, Spice, and Penny. Penny is a red-brown, and it’s the shade I use the least because warm tones don’t compliment my eyes or complexion. The three nude shimmers are absolutely beautiful. Celestial is a champagne shimmer. Gleam is a copper shade that really pops. Satin is a gorgeous shimmering taupe.

I really can see this palette working for me during spring. I think I got good value for my money, considering that 11 out of 12 of the eyeshadows here are in my daily rotation.

Have you used Girlactick eye products? Tell me what you think!

Understanding Pilling in Skincare: Solutions for Glowing Skin

Those of us Gen X babies who wore synthetic knits know all about pilling. Those tiny balls of lint formed in the washer and dryer as space-age plastic fibers abraded one another. My winter clothes had to be shaved periodically because my mother couldn’t stand sending me out in the world with a multicolored sprinkling of fuzzy dots coating my body. As an adult, I learned about being gentler with laundry and I developed a fierce allegiance to natural fibers. Now I have a new pilling issue, and it has to do with getting older.

Beauty products pill.  This is a new phenomenon for me. One common ingredient that causes pilling is silicone.  I didn’t even know what primer was until the early 2000’s, when a Sephora employee matched me to a Makeup Forever foundation and inquired about how I primed my skin for makeup.  She was mildly surprised when I explained that moisturizer prepared my skin for makeup.  That expression of surprise is what I’d label a microaggression now. She probably didn’t even know her face did that, but I did.  I left with a wonderful, pricey foundation and an ok green primer that felt silicone based. I based that guess on my understanding of textiles and coatings that give a soft “hand,” or feel to clothing we buy.  Silicone is a slippery substance that’s in a lot of products, including breast implants.  In liquid form it helps products like primers create a smooth surface for makeup.  It’s in a lot of products for aging skin.  More properly, silicones, plural, are in our skincare products

As an ingredient in anti-aging products, silicones, including dimethicone, form an occlusive layer.  That is, they form a barrier that keeps moisture in the skin.  They help plump up fine lines too, so silicones are helpful.  Consistent use helps the skin’s collagen and elastin synthesis, and these two proteins are key to anti-aging.  Other important anti-aging ingredients can cause pilling too, most notably hyaluronic acid.  Polymers and related polymer ingredients can help plump fine lines and wrinkles too.  How many times in your youth did you hear about “space-age polymers,” in reference to plastics or coatings? Yes, related ingredients are in your creams and moisturizers, primers, etc.  Again, helpful in fighting the appearance of aging skin, kind of weird to think about.  I have a primer from Laura Geller.  It’s called New York Spackle Hydrating Primer.  The ingredients we’ve been discussing: silicone, polymers, hyaluronic acid, act on the surface as well as below the surface of the skin.  They are filling in lines while they encourage cell turnover, collagen and elastin production, etc.

Here’s a key piece of information: There’s only so much a person’s skin can absorb in a short period of time, and once the skin can’t absorb anymore product, pilling can start to occur.  It can happen when you apply foundation on top of primer, for instance.  It can occur in the evening after cleansing and skincare.  Try cutting back on the amount of product you’re applying.  Try spreading one or two drops of thin serums at a time.  Everyone has seen the influencer videos of people dripping expensive serums down their faces, their expressions orgasmically rapt as they encourage their audience to misuse the products they advertise. Do what you want, but that earns a big unfollow from me.  

Apply skincare products thinnest to thickest.  I begin with an antioxidant serum that is water-based and very thin.  Then I move on to my silicone-based anti-aging serum that’s much thicker, followed by an anti-aging cream.  I use an anti-aging eye cream too.  Upon adding a second eye product, I noticed pilling.  I see that as an indication that I need to choose one product or the other.  

Make sure you allow your skin time to absorb one layer before moving on to the next.  My antioxidant serum dries quickly.  All I need to do is wait a few seconds before I’m unable to feel the product on my face.  My thicker serum requires more time, and if I’m in a hurry, I use this fan that I found on Amazon.  It’s rechargeable, compact, and it’s a lifesaver during a hot flash!

Make sure, too, that you’re exfoliating too.  My dry, rather delicate skin doesn’t respond well to aggressive exfoliation, but dead skin cells on the surface make it more difficult for skincare to penetrate, and those dead cells provide more opportunity for pilling as they slough off the surface.  One option to try is The Ordinary’s Glycolic Acid 7% Exfoliating Toner.  It feels gentle on the skin and I haven’t had a problem tolerating it.

Leave me feedback! How much of a problem is pilling for your mature skin?

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Gen X Beauty Tips: Makeup & Skincare for 45+

Welcome to Gen X Beauty Review!  I’m Holly, and this site is all about makeup and skincare for beauty enthusiasts 45 and up.  My site emphasizes science-based research to help you get the best value for your money.  You can expect to find dupes of luxury products, including dupes of 1980s classics.  I’ll cover trends too, because looking on point is important at any age.  While I post affiliate links and I sometimes make a commission on sales, I will never recommend a product that does not work for me!

I was born in 1966.  Ten years ago, about the time menopause decided to get really serious with me, my skin started to change.  I struggled with dryness so uncomfortable my skin felt tight after splashing my face with water. I approached skin care with a little dread. Moisturizers seemed to help, but only for a short time. Dramatic changes happened to my eye area.  My dark circles got darker, crow’s feet appeared, so did age spots. The skin under my eyes was delicate and crepey. For the first time I felt I was in a cycle of expensive product trials, and most of the products disappointed me.  

Cosmetics were no different.  I found my mineral foundation settled into fine lines and wrinkles.  For the first time since my teens I had no idea how to look and feel my best.  I turned to the Internet.  Influencers repeatedly used words like “lifted” to describe looks curated for “older” people.  Frequently, those influencers appeared to be twenty-something with no lines, wrinkles, or texture anywhere.  I thought I saw a frequent subtext concerning color trends as well: the target “older” person in need of a makeup mentor was to step away from colorful choices.  After a decade of beige and taupe eyeshadows, vibrant shades are back, but, influencers suggested, I needed to hang onto one trio of browns. If anyone knows how to use a rainbow of eye products, it’s someone who came of age in the 1980s. Influencer-chosen blush selections emphasized bronzer and “natural” shades of pink and rose, but the trend is currently blinding blush in some fun colors I wore 40 years ago.  

So, get comfortable, grab a cold beverage, and let’s do makeup!